Don’t Ever Change

 Last weekend I was photographing a wedding and my husband was invited as a guest. Often times he will help me with switching lenses, packing my bag or backgrounds etc. He kept me laughing all day, as did the wedding party, and on our drive home I looked at him and said, “Don’t ever change”.

It took me a moment when I really stopped and thought about that phrase, “Don’t ever change”. I had meant it in a kind way, a way of love and appreciation as he makes me smile and keeps everything light even in stressful situations. But as I thought more about it I realized how confining that term was. 

Don’t Change. That’s scary. As much as I’d like to think that change is scary, not changing is even worse. I look back at myself even just two years ago and recognize how much I have changed for the better since then. I am far more outgoing, can strike up conversations with just about anyone, and business practices- Forget about it. I wouldn’t be where I am in my business if I hadn’t grown and changed. 

I looked back over to him and said “Nix that. Change, but let your heart stay the same”.

Change- Snider Mountain. New Brunswick, Canada

Your mindset should always grow. Learning and taking into account every experience will force you to grow and change as an individual. Change is not a bad thing, there’s so much beauty in change. If you don’t believe me try going to New Brunswick in the fall, the leaves are incredible. 

So change, and keep growing. But let your heart stay kind and true to you.


🐾 Grae




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